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OWN YOUR LIFE!

>> by Owning YOUR MIND <<

>> by Owning YOUR STORY <<

Has anyone ever told you the secret to a successful & happy life?

A life lived on your terms - aligned with your values & desires?

KNOW¡! It's nothing outside of you that you have or don't have - get or don't get - can gain or loose... it's the incredible, limitless force & faculty of your own mind!

Take Ownership of Your Mind!

2 Choose... 2 Decide & 2... finally Live Conscious & Intended ... YOUR LIFE by DESIGN!

Hey together!

do you know the frustration of watching your life go by, on autopilot, with you seemingly in the passenger seat?

Theoretically you know, that it's your life & that you are the one who can & has 2 decide what you are doing & where you are going... yet, you never truly seem 2 get the handle or hold of it.

You never had & wonder if you ever will be.

If so; well let me share with you that I've been there & I've done it && more importantly it's NOT a one way street! It doesn't have 2 become your life's story, your fate or destiny!

Let me share with you some lessons & insights I've stumbled above on my journey & hustle with these seemingly immovable inner blockages & driving forces towards certain unloved destinies & outcomes.

&& how you can overcome or sidepass them =)

Your Life SHOULD BE YOURS!

YOU should determine what it is about - with who or how you spend / invest your time, energy & attention!

&& This all goes down 2 GAINING CONTROL OVER YOUR MIND!

Learn HOW TO do this && WHY it is of crucial importance!

Are you familiar with the feeling & experience that you strive & hunger 4 change & improvement & you run in all possible & impossible directions like a crazy person... & yeah, you do make progress along the way, but truly slowly & absolutely randomly - at least from my point of view & according 2 my understanding.

So, after years of unsystematic, headless hustling & running around - 2 be honest probably some kind of being busy with being busy, cause I truly had no clue where 2 turn 2 or.. what 2 do, more precisely... when 2 do what & 2 what degree.. & when is it time 2 turn towards which other area of me & my life? Since, of cause, my whole life is a mess - not just one or two areas. At least that I did properly... if & when you mess it up... then at leas be fair & do it right.. kick it all into the trash not just selective, individual aspects or areas?! I mean come on.. how boring would that be, right?!

But guess what... I'm more than tired of these unproductive, disoriented - ineffective & inefficient - stumbling around. Spending all this time, energy & resources getting nowhere.

So that became my new passion - getting down 2 the fundamentals & routs... the FEW THINGS which you actually CAN control, get managed & done that eventually truly DO CHANGE YOU, YOUR ACTIONS & RESULTS!

This is what these pages are about! The FUNDAMENTALS! The BASICS! The FEW THINGS, the trunk of the tree, so to speak, which is the origin of the countless branches, leave alone leaves which split off the trunk & main branches..., all the other further, later aspects go down 2 & grow out of.

~ & essentially this is what it comes down 2 ~

Everybody tells us WHAT to do... what to think & believe - what to desire, value & aim at. Yet, no one teaches us HOW TO claim ownership of our own mind.

HOW TO reason, HOW TO think, HOW TO decide & choose . . . HOW TO manage & use our own mind in an effective & efficient way

>> HOW TO concentrate & focus. . . HOW TO set goals. . .

Learn 2 Own Your Own Mind - Own Your Thoughts, Your Beliefs, Your Stories & Your Future!

Dive In... 2 Find Out!

FACT or FICTION?! The Stories Constantly Playing Within Your Head - About You & Everything or Everyone Around You.

The modern, western societies love their minds! Their seemingly faultless ability 2 think & reason - decide/choose & act consciously & intended. Yet, more often than not are we lived by others & exist 4 their purposes & interests, because we DON'T own our own minds! We are programmed 2 act in certain ways, claim certain positions & roles, in life & society, which more often than not DON'T serve us or align with our desires...

Your Identity & Personality... Nothing More than a Made Up Story & Habit?!

It's said that the strongest force in an individuals life is to ACT in alignment with their identity. This means that your life > your destiny & faith - your daily actions & decisions - are based on & determined by your identity > a set of beliefs about you which most likely has been given TO YOU, by your surrounding.

The Mental Game - Does Knowledge, Fact or Truth Even Exist? & What Consequences Does It Have?

The myth about the human freedom. It's a beautiful phantasm, injected into individuals minds, that says that a person without physical visible chains is free. Yet, most aren't even close 2 aware of their own imprisonment by their own mind. They don't own their mind - their thoughts or thinking & therewith are NOT able 2 own their lives!

Sources 2 Dive Into

"INSANITY:

Doing the same thing over & over again

& expecting different results."

referred 2 Albert Einstein

"2 live is 2 suffer,

2 survive is 2

find some meaning in the suffering."

Friedrich Nietzsche

CORE QUESTIONS

NOTE: Questions ARE the Origin of Every Thought! KNOW the Questions WITHIN YOUR HEAD!! Which drive your everyday actions & overall trajectory.

Why Does the Mind Matter? - It's Role & Importance

Understand that your mind is in many ways your most fundamental working basis / aspect & layer. It's where your consciousness & with it your intentions, your choices & decisions are formed & set 2 work 2 interact with & express themselves in the world.

It's pretty literally the driver-seat of YOUR LIFE! It's up 2 you 2 decide, 2 take the wheel in your own hands or 2 let it run by whoever or whatever comes along & shows more interest in using you & your life than you, yourself, 4 yourself.

What 2 Get Aware & Conscious of... 1st >> 2 then Get Intended >> 2 Own Your Choices / Decisions & Actions, Eventually.

You have 2 have become aware of the role your everyday thoughts play in your life. They are the building blocks your life is made of & build upon!

Your thoughts express your focus & your focus defines into what direction you are moving, advancing & growing. Meaning: determines who & how you become!

Who Am I? & How Important Is That Question / Knowing the Answer 2 It?

In case you fall into that soo easily & tempting trap most fall into, at least at one stage in their lives, then KNOW: You are neither your past nor your current circumstances!

They are the results of your past! The result of past choices, decisions & actions. They are NOT YOU!! They are the result of habits & routines that you have learned most likely from the family & environment you have grown up in.

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